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Post by hawk1 on Oct 28, 2004 0:44:53 GMT -5
Well let's see things my Fiance likes about me: 1. I make her laugh, alot. It's one of my defense mechinisms, whenever a situation becomes too serious I make a joke to try to lighten the tension. 2. I put up with her anal need to clean. It's crazy...I remember once while she was at work and I tried to help her clean off a counter and she came back out of the back and told me I did it all wrong and she re-did the WHOLE counter. 3. I'm Christian, and although I'm still a little wavy at times with my faith I do try to put God first...or at least second in my life and she really admires that. She is VERY relisious. 4. I can pick her up and carry her around. She loves being picked up and spun around once or twice, she always gives me this big teethy smile that I adore so much. ;D 5. I'm a very smooth kisser. (Or so she tells me) There is nothing I like better than to give her a soft kiss and watch her body just melt. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world. 6. I'm Honest. I've never intentionaly lied to her. I tell her everything, even too much she constantly says. But I want to have no secrets between us and after being togather for 11 1/2 months I'm certian there are none left. 7. I'm a nerd. And she likes that because it means I'm less likly to go cheat on her and also that I like anime and playing games which she also likes. She doeswn't always like that I'm not a fan of parties but I set up little mini-parties with my close friends that I invite her too and she adores that. I could carry on but thoes are the main points.
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Post by Mercury on Oct 28, 2004 2:06:00 GMT -5
I am not a femenine guy at all. Sometimes I can have some tendencies to show some femeninity.. but almost all guys do, or something like that. I do know that guys have feelings too, which I do. I can get hurt easily. Other than that, I am pretty much a.. man! ^^; XD
I am an average guy... and I have had girlfriends in my lifetime as well.. and I enjoyed having them as well ^_^
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Post by Mercurius on Oct 28, 2004 15:13:02 GMT -5
Mmmm ... I don't have a girlfriend right now.... In fact I only had one girlfriend in my life..... Maybe I'm looking for something too special, well I know that when I found one it will be very special ;D
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Post by moonprince804 on Oct 29, 2004 17:11:42 GMT -5
Well, as you all know I am thirteen. I'm at a stage where I'm thinking I'm gay. To be perfectly honest, I not quite sure. I do like girls, though, so I know I'm NOT homosexual. I absolutely HATE getting sweaty. I'm not that hairy. Even though I'm male, I'm quite feminine. I'm not masculine at all. I HATE fighting. I'm not that tough.
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Post by Mercury on Oct 29, 2004 17:29:29 GMT -5
Well, as you all know I am thirteen. I'm at a stage where I'm thinking I'm gay. To be perfectly honest, I not quite sure. I do like girls, though, so I know I'm NOT homosexual. I absolutely HATE getting sweaty. I'm not that hairy (except in ONE place, but that's too inapropriate for this message board, although you probally already know) Even though I'm male, I'm quite feminine. I'm not masculine at all. I HATE fighting. I'm not that tough. Being femenine does not mean you are gay either. You might not have a lot of hair, cuz you are still getting older. But remember, having hair does not prove your manhood. There are a lot of guys out there who are not hairy at all. I am not too hairy myself. Not sweaty? Maybe because you probably don't play sports. I don't either, and I am not gay. There are tons of guys out there who don't play sports. Don't worry, take time with yourself, and learn who you are with time!
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Post by pseudonym on Oct 29, 2004 23:07:04 GMT -5
Hum, I usually prefer more feminine guys. Usually... they are a little more sensitive, able to hold a normal conversation without getting macho or whatever. Er, they're usually a little more quieter as well... less rambuctious and wild. Oh and as for hair? I dunno about other girls... but I don't like it when guys have smooth legs. I mean... when guys have less leg hair than you, that's just wrong... unless its for sports or whatever. Ugh, or hairless arms as well. Irk.
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Post by Nova on Oct 30, 2004 4:00:56 GMT -5
I am heterosexual... at least I hope so... >_>
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Post by Kabal on Oct 31, 2004 7:00:11 GMT -5
Yeah, I like being hetero personally, but I think it is terrible how people will judge people, just because they are Bi or gay, However, I was molested by a gay friend my brother had, I was six when it happened, which could have easily made me prejudiced against them, but thankfully, I knew it was only because he was a sick bastard that a gay ten year old would do that to a six year old... He also forced me to do something else, and while wasn't full rape, it might as well have been (It was the wrong side...) I felt very much shame and hatred for this individual, I was forced to learn about such stuff way before I should have. This young man was from a highly religious family, and even if I told my mother, there wouldn't have been much she could have done, as the boy's mother would deny it, as Stephen once stung me with a bee he caught (My brother held me down...) and my mother told her and she said... "I will pray for you mistake, as it could not have been my son..." I guess that is where I get my loathing of Religious fanatics, but I haven't met a fanatic like that since. It is truly terrible what can happen in this world, and to tell you the truth, if I met Stephen now, I would probably gut the bastard, for the innocence he stripped from a six year old boy. But I won't hate gay people just because of one person, nor will I hate anyone just because they are apart of a group. I hate people who do terrible things, period. Sorry for the rant, but I needed to rant about that guy, I almost wish I would meet him again, except this time, I would have a firplace poker.
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Post by Kabal on Oct 31, 2004 7:05:32 GMT -5
Hum, I usually prefer more feminine guys. Usually... they are a little more sensitive, able to hold a normal conversation without getting macho or whatever. Er, they're usually a little more quieter as well... less rambuctious and wild. Oh and as for hair? I dunno about other girls... but I don't like it when guys have smooth legs. I mean... when guys have less leg hair than you, that's just wrong... unless its for sports or whatever. Ugh, or hairless arms as well. Irk. Umm, I am not macho, I have strived my entire life to not be macho, but I am far from feminine in terms of appearance, My father is a very sensitive man, and he too looks nothing feminine, Nor am I rambunctious or wild, (Well, I do tell really awful jokes, not dirty, just bad jokes...) And I have manners as well. It isn't whether a man is feminine looking or not, it depends on how they were raised, but while I am sensitive, thanks to my overactive conscience and empathy centers of my brain, I am no where near feminine in any way. So, some guys you might be juding a little too quickly, but then again, I don't know if you talked with them or just looked at them before making a decision. Anyway, I just wanted to state I am far from feminine but I am sensitive.
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Post by Mercury on Oct 31, 2004 12:13:46 GMT -5
Kabal, you must have been a strong child!
Being macho or not does not determine being gay though.. so you are okay! ^_^
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Post by moonprince804 on Oct 31, 2004 12:35:09 GMT -5
I'm not into sports, except swimming (even though I don't know how to swim ) I try to use my manners all the time and not talk with my mouth full, or chew with my mouth open, like most boys do, which is HIGHLY disgusting! My voice is pretty high-pitched at school, but at home, it's more my age. I'm also not really into wrestling. I NEVER swim shirt-less like other boys do, I'm embarrassed I don't participate in gym class, I just sit around and hang with my friends. I don't get strong by working out (much) but rather by drinking milk. I LOVE milk.
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Post by RAPTOR 9:48 on Oct 31, 2004 23:29:28 GMT -5
if you're a guy being sensetive makes jerks think you're gay, either you are or not matters to you, but I dont want someone thinking I'm anywhere near gay, and a homosexuality rumor can ruin the image of a straight man. I was a victim of that rumor and from experience I thought nothing but killing the bastard who made that rumor, and I knew EXACTLY who it was. I pray to god that jerk was the first to die in the war, or at least died anyways! I hate that guy so much I can barely remember his worthless name, the name lucifer himself gave him!! *grabs his 8-iron and bashes a chunk of concrete until it's dust, or until the club breaks*
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Post by Mercury on Nov 1, 2004 1:32:59 GMT -5
if you're a guy being sensetive makes jerks think you're gay, either you are or not matters to you, but I dont want someone thinking I'm anywhere near gay, and a homosexuality rumor can ruin the image of a straight man. I was a victim of that rumor and from experience I thought nothing but killing the bastard who made that rumor, and I knew EXACTLY who it was. I pray to god that jerk was the first to die in the war, or at least died anyways! I hate that guy so much I can barely remember his worthless name, the name lucifer himself gave him!! *grabs his 8-iron and bashes a chunk of concrete until it's dust, or until the club breaks* There is nothing wrong with being homosexual. Also I have to agree with you that just because you are a sensitive guy, does not mean people should think you are gay.
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Post by Kabal on Nov 1, 2004 5:00:47 GMT -5
Posted by: Mercury Posted on: 10/31/2004 at 12:13:46 Kabal, you must have been a strong child!
Being macho or not does not determine being gay though.. so you are okay! ^_^
Lol, I know machismo doesn't make you gay or not, I meant I don't like being macho, because it is really not a nice way to treat other people.
Posted by: Mercury Posted on: Today at 01:32:59 on 10/31/2004 at 23:29:28, RAPTOR 9:48 wrote:if you're a guy being sensetive makes jerks think you're gay, either you are or not matters to you, but I dont want someone thinking I'm anywhere near gay, and a homosexuality rumor can ruin the image of a straight man. I was a victim of that rumor and from experience I thought nothing but killing the bastard who made that rumor, and I knew EXACTLY who it was. I pray to god that jerk was the first to die in the war, or at least died anyways! I hate that guy so much I can barely remember his worthless name, the name lucifer himself gave him!! *grabs his 8-iron and bashes a chunk of concrete until it's dust, or until the club breaks*
There is nothing wrong with being homosexual.
Also I have to agree with you that just because you are a sensitive guy, does not mean people should think you are gay.
I have to agree with Mercury on this, there is nothing wrong in my opinion with being homosexual, people have started worse rumors than merely being a homosexual about me. Usually involving ritual sacrifice of children, or voodoo/ devil worship... I wasn't liked in school at all, nearly everyone always thought I was going to go to school one day packing heat and kill them all...If they only knew how I truly felt... If someone did try to attack any of the students at my school, I would do everything in my power to stop them, even if I had to give my life for someone who treated me like garbage, I love all of my brothers and sisters, and would protect any and all, no matter who they are. However, people have also thought I was gay, I didn't pay any mind, as some of the nicest people I have known were gay, I have only met one bad gay person, and it wasn't THAT he was gay that made him bad, it was the fact that he was a terrible man in the first place. Being Gay or not wasn't what made him bad, it was just the fact that he was a sick man.
And also, Mercury, I hope you and everyone else will never have to feel what I have felt... It took all the will I could muster to not end my life. Froom the age of six and up I have gone through suicidal periods, until I discovered Smoking. Cigarettes while I know how toxic they are, they still help me deal with my pain. I am twenty-one years old now. Fifteen years after not only being molested, but being forced to please that guy orally and then forced to swallow at the age of six, under threat of full-rape, it was truly hard to get over my outrage, I wanted to kill him for a long time, but now, I wouldn't kill him, I would only hurt him horribly, so I still have some work to do for myself. But, I know spend my time meditating to music, learning about myself. And while I know I am not gay, I will never hate or judge someone, just because they are. If I ever meet a gay man, who is shunned by the world, treated like garbage, I am proud to say that I would be that man's friend, I would accept him, Because no man or woman or child deserves to be shunned by society, like I have been, I am a forgotten son, and I will turn my back on No-one.
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Post by Mercury on Nov 1, 2004 10:47:18 GMT -5
Posted by: Mercury Posted on: 10/31/2004 at 12:13:46 Kabal, you must have been a strong child!
Being macho or not does not determine being gay though.. so you are okay! ^_^
Lol, I know machismo doesn't make you gay or not, I meant I don't like being macho, because it is really not a nice way to treat other people. Posted by: Mercury Posted on: Today at 01:32:59 on 10/31/2004 at 23:29:28, RAPTOR 9:48 wrote:if you're a guy being sensetive makes jerks think you're gay, either you are or not matters to you, but I dont want someone thinking I'm anywhere near gay, and a homosexuality rumor can ruin the image of a straight man. I was a victim of that rumor and from experience I thought nothing but killing the bastard who made that rumor, and I knew EXACTLY who it was. I pray to god that jerk was the first to die in the war, or at least died anyways! I hate that guy so much I can barely remember his worthless name, the name lucifer himself gave him!! *grabs his 8-iron and bashes a chunk of concrete until it's dust, or until the club breaks*
There is nothing wrong with being homosexual.
Also I have to agree with you that just because you are a sensitive guy, does not mean people should think you are gay.
I have to agree with Mercury on this, there is nothing wrong in my opinion with being homosexual, people have started worse rumors than merely being a homosexual about me. Usually involving ritual sacrifice of children, or voodoo/ devil worship... I wasn't liked in school at all, nearly everyone always thought I was going to go to school one day packing heat and kill them all...If they only knew how I truly felt... If someone did try to attack any of the students at my school, I would do everything in my power to stop them, even if I had to give my life for someone who treated me like garbage, I love all of my brothers and sisters, and would protect any and all, no matter who they are. However, people have also thought I was gay, I didn't pay any mind, as some of the nicest people I have known were gay, I have only met one bad gay person, and it wasn't THAT he was gay that made him bad, it was the fact that he was a terrible man in the first place. Being Gay or not wasn't what made him bad, it was just the fact that he was a sick man. And also, Mercury, I hope you and everyone else will never have to feel what I have felt... It took all the will I could muster to not end my life. Froom the age of six and up I have gone through suicidal periods, until I discovered Smoking. Cigarettes while I know how toxic they are, they still help me deal with my pain. I am twenty-one years old now. Fifteen years after not only being molested, but being forced to please that guy orally and then forced to swallow at the age of six, under threat of full-rape, it was truly hard to get over my outrage, I wanted to kill him for a long time, but now, I wouldn't kill him, I would only hurt him horribly, so I still have some work to do for myself. But, I know spend my time meditating to music, learning about myself. And while I know I am not gay, I will never hate or judge someone, just because they are. If I ever meet a gay man, who is shunned by the world, treated like garbage, I am proud to say that I would be that man's friend, I would accept him, Because no man or woman or child deserves to be shunned by society, like I have been, I am a forgotten son, and I will turn my back on No-one. I want you to know that by your post above... you have enlightened me, and motivated me. You are an outstanding individual. And you have one more [true] friend in this world, me. It sucks really bad at how you were treated as a child. I can not stand child abusers and molestors. It seems that you took the situation in a more intelligent way. Killing the guy would not have made the situation any better. Keep your hopes up, and your face to the front, and not to the back. I hope you have a wonderful future ahead of you, so then you won't have to suffer from the dramatic past you have lived. *Hugs* Thanks for your words!
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